When Policy Meets Grief: Good Intentions, Missed Marks

💡 When Policy Meets Grief: Good Intentions, Missed Marks

Before we begin, this post is part three in our series on grief and its hidden toll on our bodies and lives. If you haven’t already, check out:
1️⃣ Why Do We Treat Grief Like an Inconvenience? 💔
2️⃣ When Grief Turns Into Illness: The Hidden Wound We Don’t Treat 🩹

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Recently, David Eby announced a new proposal in British Columbia: up to 27 weeks of job-protected leave for workers with catastrophic illnesses or injuries. 🏥💼

This is a positive step—no one should lose their livelihood while fighting a life-altering physical disease. Truly, it’s a lifeline for many.

But here’s the catch:
💭 Grief is a catastrophic condition too.
💭 Emotional devastation can trigger illness, addiction, and even death.
💭 Yet there is no equivalent leave for someone reeling from loss.

Think about it: we have lost over 18,000 people to fentanyl in B.C. alone. Each of those lives belonged to someone. Two parents, siblings, children, friends, partners—all left behind. 💔 Every one of us walking around carrying invisible wounds.

We are a society of walking wounded. And yet, policies for grief barely exist. We honor physical illness with legislation, but the emotional devastation of loss is mostly invisible to lawmakers.

David Eby’s proposal is well-intentioned, and it will save lives in one sense—but it misses a huge part of human reality: the human cost of grief, mourning, and emotional devastation.

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Grief is not a luxury.
Grief is a body-altering, life-changing experience.
It deserves space, recognition, and protection, just like any other catastrophic condition. 🫀🕊️

Imagine a world where policy reflects that truth:
📌 Leave for catastrophic illness and grief
📌 Community support systems for mourning
📌 Rituals and symbols that honor loss

A society that treats grief as “optional” is a society that punishes the human heart.
When will this be addressed for the thousands of families broken by loss?

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💡 Call to Reflection:
If you or someone you know is struggling with grief that feels like it’s taking over your life, please reach out to loved ones, community supports, or professional help. Grief may be invisible to policy, but it is real, and it deserves to be witnessed.