⚠️ Trigger Warning: This post discusses sexual violence, rape, coercion, alcohol-related assault, and institutional protection of abusers. It includes references to personal trauma, survivor experiences, and systemic failures in justice. Please take care while reading.
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📞 Canada’s Talk Suicide Line: 1-833-456-4566
📞 VictimLink BC (24/7): 1-800-563-0808
📞 Sexual Assault Support Centre (SASC) UBC: 604-827-5180
🌐 Ending Violence Association of BC: endingviolence.org
🏒 Silence, Power & Rape Culture in Hockey: Who Is the NHLPA Really Protecting?
By Tina Winterlik aka Zipolita
There is a sickness in hockey — and it’s not on the ice.
This week, the National Hockey League Players’ Association (NHLPA) issued a public statement defending the five hockey players accused of the 2018 gang rape of a young woman, known publicly as E.M., in London, Ontario. The statement didn’t mention her name. It didn’t mention rape. It didn’t mention alcohol. It didn’t mention trauma.
Instead, it mourned the fact that the players “missed more than a full season” of hockey and insisted they should now “have the opportunity to return to work.” According to the NHLPA, the NHL's decision to keep them ineligible to play while reviewing the court’s findings is “inconsistent with the discipline procedures set forth in the CBA.”
That’s how much E.M.'s life is worth to them: less than a season.
🧠 Let's Talk About the Facts
In 2018, a young woman was invited to a Hockey Canada gala. She had at least 8 alcoholic drinks, provided by the players — men who were well aware of her condition. She was so intoxicated that she couldn't walk without support. Later, five members of Team Canada’s World Junior hockey team took her to a hotel room and assaulted her.
She was coerced into recording a video stating she consented. That video became their legal shield.
Even though the criminal case ended in acquittals, the facts of the night — the manipulation, the coordinated assault, the power imbalance — are not erased. They are part of a systemic pattern of rape culture, athlete entitlement, and institutional silence.
Let’s be clear:
- This was not consensual sex.
- This was not an isolated incident.
- This was not justice.
🇨🇦 A Canadian Crisis, An American Mouthpiece
Here’s what burns: this didn’t happen in the U.S. This happened in London, Ontario — a Canadian city, at a Canadian event, by Team Canada players. The victim is Canadian. Hockey is part of our identity, our legacy, and our culture.
So why is the loudest voice defending these players coming from an American executive named Marty Walsh?
Walsh, the current head of the NHLPA, was previously the Mayor of Boston and U.S. Secretary of Labor. He’s not Canadian. He’s not a survivor. He’s not even a neutral party — he was hired to protect the players’ careers, not to seek justice or center morality.
Why is a man from Boston telling Canadian survivors, families, and fans that these men “deserve” to return to the ice?
💔 The Damage Isn’t Just To One Woman
E.M. may have survived the night, but her life has been changed forever. Like so many women, her trauma was captured, debated, dismissed, and now erased by people who still call themselves professionals.
And it goes beyond her.
A relative's wife was raped and sexually assaulted by the Paper Bag Rapist. They didn’t survive it.
I’ve narrowly escaped sexual assault more times than I can count. I was young and trusting. I drank too much at parties. I remembered things much later. I’ve traveled alone through Mexico. I’ve had to act smart, fast, just to stay safe.
Why? Because men thought they had a right to take what they wanted.
I’m 63 now. And I still don’t feel safe in some situations do best to avoid them at all costs.
Imagine how the girls growing up today feel — especially in a world where their phones are full of violent porn, toxic messages, and zero accountability.
This isn’t just about sports. This is about every woman who has ever been blamed, silenced, or destroyed by rape culture — and then had to watch her abuser walk free, and get rich.
🧠 What the NHLPA Is Really Saying
The NHLPA’s statement tells survivors:
- You don’t matter.
- What happened to you is unfortunate, but not important.
- The careers of men who assaulted you are more valuable than your healing.
- We’ll protect them. You’re on your own.
It’s the same message we’ve seen in the Catholic Church, in Hollywood, in politics, in tech, and in sport: protect the brand, protect the boys, bury the girl.
✊ We Say No More
To the NHLPA: Shame on you.
To Marty Walsh: Sit down.
To every sponsor, parent, journalist, and fan still making excuses: Stop.
Canada doesn’t need American leadership defending gang rapists. We need a reckoning. We need accountability. We need justice that doesn’t end when the camera stops rolling.
And to the women who are survivors — whether you speak out or hold your truth in silence — you are believed. You are not alone. And we will fight for you.
📢 What You Can Do:
- Demand sponsors withdraw support until the NHLPA apologizes and reforms.
- Share survivor stories and amplify their voices.
- Refuse to watch or support NHL games while these players are protected.
- Write to your MP and ask for better protections and laws around coercion, consent, and alcohol.
- Name names — pressure works when we keep the spotlight burning.
💬 Final Words
Marty Walsh may not be on Epstein’s list — but he sure acts like he’s protecting the same boys’ club.
We don’t need more statements about missed hockey seasons.
We need accountability, truth, and dignity — and not just for the players.
For the women. For the girls. For all of us.