Ellen DeGeneres, love, acceptance, and why we cannot afford to stay silent.

 Ellen DeGeneres, love, acceptance, and why we cannot afford to stay silent

I was thinking about Ellen DeGeneres today and that moment in 1997 when she publicly came out as gay.

It was a big deal. She risked her career, faced enormous criticism, and became part of a conversation that television and society weren't necessarily ready to have.

My kid is now in their mid-twenties. They grew up in a very different environment. They grew up around same-sex marriages, different kinds of families, and people loving who they love.

I also worked for a gay couple when my kid was growing up. I wanted them to understand something very simple: there is absolutely nothing wrong with two people loving each other.

Love is good. Love is beautiful. As long as you're not hurting someone else, why should anyone else get to decide whether your love is acceptable?

I never wanted my kid to grow up thinking that someone else's identity, relationship or differences made them any less deserving of respect.

But lately, I've been thinking about how fragile progress can be.

We seem to be entering a time when being different can once again make people targets. Human rights, personal freedoms, freedom of expression and the right to live openly and safely should never be taken for granted.

There's an old warning, often associated with Martin Niemöller, about what happens when we remain silent while others are targeted.

First they came for the people whose voices were different. I wasn't one of them, so I didn't speak up.

Then they came for another group. Still, I wasn't one of them.

And eventually, they came for me.

But there was no one left to speak up.

The wording has been adapted many times, but the message remains.

If we only defend the rights of people who are just like us, we're not really defending human rights.

We need to speak up for writers, artists, journalists, LGBTQ2S+ communities, immigrants, Indigenous people, the poor, the homeless, women, elderly and anyone being singled out, marginalized, discriminated against or treated as though they matter less because they are different or have less.

Human rights belong to everyone, not just the people who have a voice, money or influence.

We don't have to agree on everything to respect one another's right to exist, to speak, to love and to live without discrimination.

Ellen's moment in 1997 reminds us that visibility matters. Courage matters. And the people who stand up when it isn't easy matter.

I want the next generation to inherit a world with more acceptance, not less.

And I don't want any of us waiting until our own rights are threatened before we decide to care about someone else's.

Speak up while you still can.

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